loppett:

  1. Do not settle for substandard relationships out of your fear of being alone.
  2. If you want to unsettle a man while he’s blathering to you, don’t look him in the eye. Stare right at his hairline.
  3. Don’t push yourself down a hole because you made a mistake. Recognize what was in…

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Consent and warning are not acquiescences to arbitrary, repressive notions of decorum or authority. Rather, they are space-makers, and they allow for the very possibility of voluntary submission or emancipation. The desire to catch an audience unawares and ambush it is a fundamentally terrorizing, Messianic approach to art-making, one that underestimates the capacities and intelligence of most viewers, and overestimates that of most artists.
The Art of Cruelty: A Reckoning, Maggie Nelson (via hotdog-hotdog)

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Fanon told us in 1963 that decolonizing the mind is the first step, not the only step toward overthrowing colonial regimes. Yet we wonder whether another settler move to innocence is to focus on decolonizing the mind, or the cultivation of critical consciousness, as if it were the sole activity of decolonization; to allow conscientization to stand in for the more uncomfortable task of relinquishing stolen land. We agree that curricula, literature, and pedagogy can be crafted to aid people in learning to see settler colonialism, to articulate critiques of settler epistemology, and set aside settler histories and values in search of ethics that reject domination and exploitation; this is not unimportant work. However, the front-loading of critical consciousness building can waylay decolonization, even though the experience of teaching and learning to be critical of settler colonialism can be so powerful it can feel like it is indeed making change. Until stolen land is relinquished, critical consciousness does not translate into action that disrupts settler colonialism.

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handaxe:

*has heart palpitations*
IT’S TAKEN ME TWO GODDAMN YEARS TO TAKE MY BLOG PUBLIC I’VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT IT FOR SO LONG BUT I FINALLY JUST DID IT AND I Don’t feel any better, i still feel scared about it

handaxe:

*has heart palpitations*

IT’S TAKEN ME TWO GODDAMN YEARS TO TAKE MY BLOG PUBLIC I’VE BEEN TALKING ABOUT IT FOR SO LONG BUT I FINALLY JUST DID IT AND I Don’t feel any better, i still feel scared about it

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handaxe:

i 4got about photobooth

I’m in love with this lady.

handaxe:

i 4got about photobooth

I’m in love with this lady.

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handaxe:

wow i lost two followers immediately after posting a picture of myself, so have some outtakes you assholes

Well you just gained one here. Damn how stunning is this lady? Yet another beautiful woman that is above and beyond me, well a man can dream.

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cometothefanny:

It’s amazing that, after all these years, Ryan still loses it over Colin’s infamous one-liners!

What’s even more amazing is the fact that the program was going on over here for almost a decade before it got started in the States. So all that time and the two of them are still the glue that holds the show together.

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1loverofamateurs:

Thank you for following me. I really appreciate each and everyone of you. If you’re not currently following me please do. I add multiple pics daily!

1loverofamateurs:

Thank you for following me. I really appreciate each and everyone of you. If you’re not currently following me please do. I add multiple pics daily!

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